I want to start out this post by saying it is from a completely unbiased viewpoint. That I am in no way trying to promote the love of cats over dogs. I do not love cats more than dogs…I do not secretly watch cat videos in my spare time, and I have no sentimental feelings towards cats.
Ok….well…maybe I love cats. So I guess it is only fair to say I have heard of similar results with dogs, but since we have cats, that is what I am focusing on in this post. Dogs are cool too though…
Bedtime has often been a struggle for my kids. Staying calm has been a struggle. Having positive social interactions can also sometimes be a struggle. Due to the above mentioned reasons, we started to discuss getting a cat. I had heard positive stories about people getting animals to help children with special needs, but didn’t know if it would actually help.
I have 8 kids. So adding an animal is a big deal. We once attempted a fish when my oldest was about 4 years old. I had half the kids back then. I secretly gave it away to the neighbors. Recently my son, who is now 12, found out, and was not impressed. But seriously. We had 4 kids in diapers up until 2 weeks ago (praise the Lord we finally succeeded at potty training one after 1 year), so adding more poop to the equation just didn’t seem like a smart idea. Not being able to leave the house for vacations due to a dog, also didn’t seem like a good idea. So when we finally decided it was worth getting a pet to help our kids, we opted for a cat.
I grew up with both. We had weiner dogs and cats. I had a siamese kitty who acted like a dog, followed me around, played fetch, and slept under the covers. The weiner dogs were adorable too. But from experience, I knew cats actually required very little. They needed to be fed, yes, and a litter box kept clean, but that is it. They didn’t need walks. They could watch themselves during the day. I didn’t have to scoop poop. It seemed like a plausible situation.
So after trying to convince my husband for a good 2 years (he grew up with no pets), he eventually caved. I bombarded him with kitten photos and they surprisingly worked (he would like it to be publicly known that it was his idea for this post haha…I guess he came around). The one that sealed the deal was this adorable siamese kitty:
He finally agreed and I purchased the very kitty from the photo. The man selling her lived about 4 hours away but agreed to meet me half way. I dropped the kids off at school, grabbed my younger sister for help, and we headed on our way. We surprised the kids at pick up and everyone was overjoyed!
My children could not be gentle with toys, furniture, dishes, vehicles…you name it. But somehow, they managed to be SO gentle with our new baby kitten, whom we named Cocoa.
I would like to mention that Cocoa’s birthday is 4 days apart from my 1 year old born the same year. I won’t mention how difficult it is to remember which birthday is which…
The transition to getting a cat went amazing. Every night one of the kids would get the cat to come snuggle at bedtime. By the time that child fell asleep, the next kid snuck in, grabbed Cocoa, and took her to bed themselves. We had some of the least argumentative bedtimes EVER! The kids also would snuggle Cocoa during the day and could be found for very decent chunks of time sitting calmy and quietly..a rare sighting in our house.
After this experience we had such a positive view of cats with the kids! I realized what a good addition to our family a cat was and what the cat to child ratio was, and we decided to get another kitten. I won’t mention the convincing involved…and Daniel would probably tell you I wanted a cat to love me since Cocoa loved the children more…but those are all lies.
So a year later on mothers day, Cocoa walked into my bedroom with a sign around her neck that read “I’m going to be a mom!” It was very sweet 🙂 I immediately messaged the man who sold us Cocoa, and sure enough he had another little girl available, so instead of becoming a mother, Cocoa got her little baby sister. We named her Nutmeg.
BOOM. Cat success!! Plus, I found a way to include my cats in my blog. I will likely never do this again since I try to avoid looking like a crazy cat lady. But this post did bring me cat joy. On a much sadder note, Nutmeg loves Daniel the most. Not me. The saddest tale of all.
A side note….we found out Nutmeg had a bit more Nut…and a little less Meg. Nutmeg is now a boy.
So, will dogs be a suitable alternative to cats for your children. I suppose. But cats are sure snuggly and cuddly and cute and have been an amazing addition at calming our kids and helping them sleep. I don’t recommend rabbits though, they are rather hoppity and would likely send the calm factor in the opposite direction. Dog and Cat good. Rabbit bad.
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How about you? Have you had success with animals for your children?
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